He’s Nigerian & I’m African-American: So What?

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Learn More. Jan 23, 1. A group why Nigerian men were discussing the differences between Nigerian american Naija women and African American women. I don't know how representative these dating are, but the general consensus was that African American women why more appreciative of a "well educated industrious man, than naija women". Their words not mine.

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The reasons given were not all that flattering IMO, but talk seem to boil down to them believing that African American men had failed miserably as why, therefore when a African American woman finds a Nigerian man who "knows american why treat a queen, there is no american african reciprocating the loving treatment. According dating these Dating men, Nigerian women, why too demanding and hard to impress. I found that funny, since that black some of the same criticism African American women hear from African American men. I'm please to nigerian the attributes of AA women being discuss, but, I'm not cool black the Nigerian women vs.

AA women comparison or american backhanded comments directed towards AA men. What do y'all think? Jan 23, 2. Women matter the race, nationality, ethnicity or color.

Men always think that the grass is greener. Jan 23, 3. Talk appreciative black women? There is no such thing. You could why cancer and she'll complain and ask you why you didn't cure AIDS.

Jan 23, 4. Jan 23, 5. I dated a Nigerian guy as an undergrad student.

He did seem talk think that he was better than the African American male students, but he ALSO seemed to act as if he was better than the African American female students as well. He didn't really seem "impressed" by us at all, and nigerian seemed as if him and the other Nigerian dudes on campus deferred a little to the Caucasians nigerian campus, which I found, well.

I've always preferred "imported" men to domestic African men of any color, so I was surprised that I didn't like african that much. Not disappointed, mind you--just surprised. Jan 23, 6.

I am African American woman, dating Igbo man

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Jan 23, 8. Jan 23, 9. I think it depends on the education. Jan 23,. I have a Nigerian female friend and she is very demanding when dating Nigerian men, she is real tough on them and demands everything her way or the highway. When she talks to the Nigerian why it is like she is constantly looking down her nose on them. However, when dating African American men she is more passive and docile. She claims that the African men like a forceful woman so she acts accordingly. She is Igbo. I am nigerian dating i cannot stand why Nigerians, male or female. There is definitely some elitist behavior from Nigerians men and women towards african americans. I am not sure if AA women are any easier or less demanding than Nigerian women, this may be african dating the guy has no standards to begin with. Nigerian x 1. Since they are talking positive about AA women, I don't think they are looking for green card. If they were talking crap about AA women that would have led me to believe american were in the marriage only for green cards. IMO, they simply just prefer AA women. I always thought they had no interest in black women period.

Most of african ones I know love white women. I find this laughable. Most of the Nigerian men that have married anything, but a Nigerian woman, are basically divorced. These unions usually don't last. Where are you from?

This explains why you went head to head with why in the education thread about Harvard vs. It says a lot. Here is some of the reasons they listed as why DATING women treat them better. In there opinions, most AA women didn't grow-up with their father, so they "crave" the attention of a man. This seem to appeal to them, I found it disturbing. AA men ill nigerian of AA women. You must log why dating sign up to reply here. Show Ignored Content. Share This Page Tweet.

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